Truth Bomb Tuesday: They told you your superpower was a curse… Are you sitting on a hidden super-power? Are you squashing it? There’s a good chance you are. When I first got into the game, an older investor once told me that women don’t make for good property investors because they’re ‘too emotional’. You needed […]
T-Bomb: Motivation – the gentle way
Truth Bomb Tuesday: Motivation doesn’t need to be so hard. You can only get so far with hating yourself. And look, hating yourself does work. You can get results. You can train your inner monologue to yell at yourself every time the alarm goes off, “Get up you worthless worm. Why don’t you make something […]
T-Bomb: A year to change your life?
Truth Bomb Tuesday: The state I try to put myself in as the year begins. Here we go. The year is in full swing now, and we’re rushing down the water-slide chute towards 2024 at break-neck speed. Is it terrifying? Exciting? A bit of both? I’m excited. The new year is a new chapter. It’s […]
T-Bomb: Why people are scared of permission
Truth Bomb Tuesday: Be direct. Be clear. “I give you permission to do whatever you want, all the time.” You should see people’s faces when I say this to them. It’s subtle. But they freeze up a bit and their eyes bug out. There’s a jolt of energy that slips through their system. “What if […]
T-Bomb: The most toxic idea out there
Truth Bomb Tuesday: Be direct. Be clear. “I just wish my hubby was more affectionate.” “You don’t think he loves you?” “Oh no. He loves me. I know he loves me. He’s just not very touchy. I just wish he was more affectionate.” “What happens when you ask him to be affectionate?” “When I what?” […]
T-Bomb: Why its better to fail at what you love
Truth Bomb Tuesday: This bent my head a little bit If you’re looking for something a bit out of the ordinary – and a bit mind-bending and inspirational – check out the Andy and Jim documentary on Netflix. (No affiliate kickbacks, I promise!) More and more I love a good doco. The reality is that […]
T-Bomb: Escaping a ‘culture of wrong’
Truth Bomb Tuesday: A simple framework for de-escalating conflict “In the end, I lost it at my husband, threw the loaf of bread at him and said ‘Stop trying to change me! I’m sick of feeling like I’m wrong all the time!” And he said, ‘That’s exactly how I feel! I feel like you’re always […]
T-Bomb: Where real joy comes from
Truth Bomb Tuesday: Life starts when we take off our masks You are nowhere near as clever as you think you are. Actually, you are probably more intelligent than you think you are, but you are not as clever – you can’t fool us as well as you think you can. Many of us spend […]
T-Bomb: How to be really radical
Truth Bomb Tuesday: Don’t let the dishes hold you back from happy. “The dishes are never done.” There are two types of people in the world. The first hear a statement like this and tumble into depression. The other hear this and feel liberated into joy. (Ok, maybe I’m overselling it a bit.) But the […]
T-Bomb: How to be desire-driven
Truth Bomb Tuesday: There’s two ways of moving. But they’re really just two sides of the same coin. There’s something hiding behind every fear you have. It’s the desire for something beautiful. Fears don’t exist in a vacuum. We’re not afraid of things for their own sake. It’s about what we stand to lose if […]