Truth Bomb Tuesday: Are we scared of boredom, or is there something darker lurking beneath the surface? A lot of people struggle to spend time with their thoughts. They crave distractions. There’s no news there. But a recent study has shown that people would even prefer to give themselves an electric shock than be stuck […]
T-Bomb: Sour grapes is a trap. There are others.
Truth Bomb Tuesday: This is what the sour grapes fable was actually about. I want to show you something important. It starts with the story of sour grapes. We all know that one. The Fox can’t reach the grapes he wants and so tells himself that those grapes were probably sour anyway. Now the thing […]
T-Bomb: Why you need successful friends
Truth Bomb Tuesday: The power of networks is actually astounding. I have an argument with my marketing guys pretty regularly. At ILRE we have a range of systems and strategies that people can access. And they also have a powerful community that they can be part of. Which one do you think is more important […]
T-Bomb: What stunned me about the Matildas run
Truth Bomb Tuesday: Not every nation has a team like the Matildas. Not every nation even wants to. Watching the Matildas run over the past few weeks has been pretty exciting. And look, I’ll be honest. I’m not really a soccer girl, so I’m not going to pretend to jump on that bandwagon. But it […]
T-Bomb: Why we all have this instinct
Truth Bomb Tuesday: Collaboration isn’t just a nice flow. It’s a tool for survival. “You don’t have to do it alone.” Actually, that’s maybe not strong enough. “You are not supposed to do it on your own.” “I’m not sure it’s actually possible to do it on your own.” What’s “it”? I dunno. Probably everything. […]
T-Bomb: Hippy fluff or brain hack of the year?
Truth Truth Bomb Tuesday: Don’t be a useless dreamer I talked a lot about the power of visualising and positive thinking for a lot of people, it sets their BS detectors off. This is good. Its good to have our BS detectors on high alert, because I have seen a lot of people tripping merrily […]
T-Bomb: When to rush and when to relax
Truth Bomb Tuesday: Be driven at the calendar, chill at the desk. There’s a particular dance we have to do in this journey. A particular balance we have to strike. We have to cultivate a sense of urgency without getting into a rush. We have to cultivate a sense of urgency because life is short. […]
T-Bomb: Wait, what if this is a dumb idea?
Truth Bomb Tuesday: My strategy for when doubt creeps in. “Wait, what if this is a dumb idea?” That was me a couple of years ago. I was in a meeting with my team and we were developing a new offering. It was a new direction for us, but it felt good. When I had […]
T-Bomb: Stop waiting to enjoy life
Truth Bomb Tuesday: This is a condition that a lot of people have Someone shared something with me that really struck a chord. It went like this: The best New Year’s resolution I ever made was to start devouring all my nicest things, and save no small pleasure for an unspecified future. Now I burn […]
T-Bomb: How to hack your emotional systems
Truth Bomb Tuesday: How to reclaim your power from your emotions. “Sometimes my emotions get the better of me. I get close to landing a deal, and then I get scared. Self-doubt creeps in, and I just can’t go on. I know my emotions are holding me back, but I just don’t know how to […]